How to Support Your Hormones Naturally in Your 40s
Not long after you blew the candles out for your 40th birthday cake, you likely started to notice some subtle shifts in how you were feeling. Maybe you started feeling a bit more irritable, anxious, or sluggish. Perhaps your menstrual cycle started to alter. Or maybe your libido took a hit. While menopause occurs around 50 years of age for most women, it’s possible to start experiencing the hormonal shifts of perimenopause – the period of time that leads up to the time your menstrual cycle stops for good – in their early 40s.
Here are some of the most common questions that people have around perimenopause, and what can be done to help support their hormones naturally.
What are the symptoms of perimenopause?
Perimenopause is a time of hormonal fluctuations, and with this many symptoms can occur. Some of the most common symptoms that women experience sleep disturbances, mood swings, reduced stress tolerance, lowered libido, hot flushes, menstrual irregularity, changes in menstrual flow (may be lighter or heavier than usual, sometimes with significant increases), bloating, brain fog, joint or muscle aches, hayfever, itchy ears, fatigue, vaginal dryness, increased tendency to thrush or BV, and headaches/migraines.
Why do women get perimenopausal symptoms?
Unlike after menopause, when hormones are at a lower state and symptoms can occur because of these low levels, in perimenopause symptoms can be caused by the fluctuations of oestrogen and the gradual decline of progesterone. These hormonal shifts can cause the adrenal response to stress to be affected, which also means that stress can be harder to deal with.
Why do hormones change in your 40s?
Hormonal balance is largely a result of regular, healthy ovulation. The follicular phase, the time between the start of menstruation and ovulation is a time of abundant oestrogen, and then in the luteal phase, oestrogen declines (with a few spikes) while progesterone levels come to the show. It is all dependant on ovulation.
For this to all work in harmony, many factors need to be working seamlessly, such as stress hormones, inflammation, mitochondrial health and nutritional health. The previous cycle will affect subsequent cycles, as low progesterone often triggers higher levels of FSH.
As oocyte (egg) numbers decline and mitochondrial health depletes, the signals of the HPO axis in perimenopause are altered and ovulation doesn’t occur every cycle. This results in a gradual decline in progesterone, and fluctuating levels of oestrogen as the brain tries to adjust to the fluctuation of irregular ovulation.

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What is the difference between menopause and perimenopause?
Perimenopause is the time leading up to the definitive marker of menopause, the time when there has been 12 months since the last menstrual bleed. You are perimenopause in the time leading up to this moment, and post menopausal afterwards. Menopause is the umbrella term that incorporates all of these. It is worth noting that it is still possible to experience a random bleed in the post menopausal period, and if this occurs you should discuss with your health care practitioner as while it can be a renegade menstruation, it can also be a sign of something more concerning.
Should I take supplements to support my hormones?
Not everyone needs to take supplements, and many nutrients can be obtained through your diet. But there are a lot of people who aren’t eating enough of the vitamins and minerals that are essential for healthy hormones and nervous system health, or have genetic polymorphisms which increase their demand for certain nutrients.
These are some of my favourite supplements to support the perimenopausal period:
- Magnesium glycinate – this is important for nervous system health, blood sugar level regularity and is important for hormone creation and detoxification.
- Taurine – I often prescribe this alongside magnesium, as it can help with improving mood and energy (it interacts with GABA receptors, producing a calming effect). It is also important for bile acid formation and mitochondrial health.
- Ubiquinol – The activated form of Coq10 is more effectively used in those who are over 30 years of age. CoQ10 and its activated form ubiquinol are important for mitochondria health, which has many wide-reaching benefits including cardiovascular health, energy, immune function, skin health and other anti-aging properties and more.
- Collagen – As oestrogen lowers, the body’s ability to make and repair collagen reduces, so supplementation can help to offset some of this loss. Collagen can be helpful for improving skin, bone and joint health, and often is useful for digestive health concerns.
- Phyto-oestrogens – In particular, soy which is abundant in isoflavones have a regulating effect on hormones. Isoflavones have been studied abundantly and found to be helpful for managing menopausal symptoms, as well as being protective against several of the long-term risks of menopause such as osteoporosis and cardiovascular disease. It is protective against many forms of hormone-dependant cancers. I advise avoiding the overly refined forms of soy products, and opting for those made with the whole bean such as traditional soy foods, or milks made from the whole bean rather than the isolate.
There are many more nutritional supplements that can be beneficial, as well as herbal medicines that can support you through this period. I discuss these in more detail in my ecourse Natural Menopause Support. Alternatively, get in touch with your health care practitioner to help work out what your individual requirements are, as well as what doses you may need.
How do I know if I’m going through perimenopause?
This is a very common question, and unfortunately it doesn’t have a simple answer. Hormone testing can provide some insight into whether you are getting closer to perimenopause, but it can be difficult to interpret because of the fluctuations that occur in perimenopause.
The best way to know if you are going through perimenopause is taking several factors into consideration such as your age, your maternal family’s menopausal experience, your symptoms – notably your cycle regularity and whether this has changed.
Blood tests may show a gradual increase in FSH (follicle stimulating hormone) and a decline in progesterone. Oestrogen levels can fluctuate in perimenopause, so they may be high or low. After menopause when you have not ovulated for at least 12 months, oestrogen and progesterone will be considerably lower, and FSH will usually be much higher.
How to lose weight in your 40s
It may seem like losing weight as you get older becomes more of a struggle, and that’s because your hormonal shifts cause your metabolic health to change. Insulin resistance is a by product of reduced oestrogen, which makes losing weight, especially around the abdomen more difficult than it was when you were younger. If there are other hormonal imbalances at play such as PCOS, oestrogen excess, thyroid dysfunction or chronic stress/HPA dysfunction this can also contribute towards difficulty losing weight with standard methods.
Assessing your hormonal situation is the first step to identify barriers to weight loss, and then you can make diet and exercises choices that will work best for you.
In the majority of cases the staples of weight loss still need to come into play, such as ensuring you are eating the correct amount of calories, exercising and maintaining muscle mass, and getting adequate sleep.
GLP-1 and GIP medications are becoming more popular, and while they can be very helpful in the weight loss journey they do have side effects and risks that need to be managed. As with any other weight loss approach, they are not a long term solution but can be helpful whilst other factors such as diet and lifestyle habits are improved, and hormonal imbalance is supported.
When should I consider HRT?
This is an individual decision and needs to be done in collaboration with your health care practitioner. Menopausal Hormonal Therapy (MHT), previously known as Hormonal Replacement Therapy (HRT) has had many advances in safety and can be used to help navigate the symptoms with low oestrogen, progesterone and/or DHEA. In perimenopause, progesterone therapy is more commonly used cyclically, with oestrogen being more beneficial only in the times when low oestrogen occurs. As oestrogen fluctuates in perimenopause, it is often not used until after ovulation has ceased.
Some people experience negative effects from taking MHT, but this doesn’t mean that MHT is not for you, but rather that you need to have your individual needs taken into consideration. If you feel worse from MHT, this may be due to poor detoxification of oestrogens or because your hormones are still fluctuating too wildly, as taking additional oestrogen when it is already high can cause issues such as heavy bleeding, headaches or mood changes.
You may be able to find out if you are not detoxing your hormones properly with a test that assesses the ratio of your hormone metabolites, such as the DUTCH test or EndoMap.
Should I see a naturopath for perimenopause?
Perimenopause and menopause are one of the most common reasons that people seek help from a naturopath, and for good reason. There is so much that can be done to support people going through this transition naturally, including supporting symptoms and hormonal fluctuations with herbal medicine, nutritional supplements to reduce symptoms and improve wellbeing, and education and guidance around diet and lifestyle adjustments that can help to both reduce the symptoms of this time and reduce the risks associated with after menopause such as osteoporosis, genito-urinary changes and cardiovascular and metabolic health.
Because this is such a common thing that people seek help with, I have created an ecourse – Natural Menopause Support – which provides an abundance of education about what is going on in menopause and perimenopause, as well as guidance on navigating the remedies that may be helpful.
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As you move through your 40s, understanding and supporting your hormones can make a world of difference to how you feel each day. Perimenopause doesn’t have to be a confusing or uncomfortable time — with the right nutrition, lifestyle support, and individualised care, you can navigate this stage feeling strong, informed, and in tune with your body.
If you’d like to dive deeper into natural ways to manage symptoms and restore hormonal balance, you’ll find plenty of guidance in my Natural Menopause Support eCourse, where I share practical tools and naturopathic insights to help you thrive through perimenopause and beyond.








